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This Is Her Legacy—Not Yours to Rewrite

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The words Her Story are superimposed over veteran silhouettes.

Women have always served in the U.S. military. Always. From disguising themselves as men in the Revolutionary War, to hauling wounded soldiers out of fire in Vietnam, to leading convoys in Iraq and Afghanistan.

Thousands of women have died in uniform. Thousands more have returned with invisible scars. 

We’re seeing a real-time erasure of these women from our country’s story. The current administration—through its silence, policies, and priorities—is making it loud and clear that these women don’t fit the image of patriotism they want to promote.

Imagine risking your life for a country that won’t even say your name out loud on Memorial Day.

That’s the reality for countless women who served—and died—for this country.

Combat exclusion policies were officially lifted in 2013. Women were on the frontlines long before then. They were flying helicopters, driving Humvees, training local forces, and risking their lives. They just didn’t get the credit—or the benefits, medals, or recognition—of their male counterparts

This Memorial Day, while politicians wave flags at local parades (or throw themselves one), remember the truth:

  • Women have served.
  • Women have led.
  • Women have died for this country.

When these women go unrecognized, we tell future generations of girls that their service, their bravery, and their lives don’t matter.

You can scrub them from your websites.

You can skip their names at your podiums.

But you will not erase them from history. They’ve been there all along.

Tell Her Story

If you want to honor them—take action. Stop watching as they are systematically removed from websites, leadership, speeches, and our country. 

Say their names. Share their stories.

Vote for leaders who don’t erase history, bully the marginalized, or twist patriotism into a weapon.

If your patriotism requires silencing women, rewriting history, and pandering to hate—you’re not a leader. You’re a liability.

For every woman whose service was dismissed, whose sacrifice went unspoken, and whose legacy remains ignored—

We see you. We remember you. We honor you.

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Introducing our second speaker for Uncomfortable Conversations | The Pause, happening this Thursday. 

Meet Cheryl Bergman, Executive Director of the @miwomenscomm.

Cheryl is a statewide policy leader driving economic opportunity and better health outcomes for women across Michigan. Appointed by Governor Gretchen Whitmer in 2019, she brings together employers, healthcare experts, advocates, and policymakers to tackle the issues that actually move the needle - economic security, affordable childcare, and midlife women's health.

Before this role, Cheryl helped elect Michigan's first woman U.S. Senator and first woman Governor, and served as Senior Advisor on Governor Whitmer's 2018 campaign.

She's exactly the voice this conversation needs.

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Join us for The Pause on September 24th. Link in bio.
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Applications close on September 15.
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